神的愛能修補關係 - 譚娟兒

       我信了主耶穌基督已經十八年了。未信主前我是一個容易嫉妒和非常要面子的人。從小我就很嫉妒我的姐姐,總覺得爸媽把最好的東西都給了她,她所得到的愛都比我多,所以我總會做很多讓父母和家人不喜歡的事去引起他們的注意。我會常常為一些小事和姐姐吵,有時會冷戰幾個月或半年。無論對或錯我從未說過一聲對不起,因為我覺得道歉是件很沒面子的事。但這樣的相處方式和生活讓我很不開心。我很想改變,不再去嫉妒,去修補這段關係,可是已經吵架多年,覺得無法改變了。直到我認識了主耶穌,祂愛和原諒那些恨祂的人,甚至會為出賣祂和打祂的人釘十字架,我被祂十字架那份捨己的愛感動了。

      有一次我為了和姐姐爭電視看而吵架,冷戰了一日後我想起了聖經裡的馬太福音18章21-22節--門徒彼得問耶穌:「主啊,我弟兄得罪我,我當饒怒他幾次呢?到七次可以嗎?」耶穌說:「我對你說,不是到七次,乃是到七十個七次。」主的愛和聖經的教導成了我主動向姐姐說對不起的動力。那天我鼓起勇氣給姐姐寫了一封道歉信,願意和她修補關係。自此之後,我不再嫉妒,我們也很少吵架了,就算吵了架,我也會很勇敢地跟她說對不起,很快就會和好。現在我會常常為有一個姐姐去感恩,並且很珍惜有她。感謝主幫了我。

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The Lord’s Love Can Repair Relationship - Suki Tan

I have believed in the Lord Jesus Christ for 18 years. Before I believed in the Lord Jesus, I was easily jealous and had never said sorry to others. Since childhood, I had been always jealous of my older sister. I always thought that our parents had given her all the best things, and she had received more love than I did. As a result, I had done a lot of things which my parents and other family members didn’t like to attract their attentions. I often quarreled over minor issues with my older sister. Sometimes we would not talk to each other over a few months even to half year.  Whether I was right or wrong, I would never apologize to her because I thought I would lose my superiority if I said sorry. However, such lifestyle made me unhappy, so I would like to change, not to envy, and to repair the relationship with my older sister. But we had argued for many years. I thought our relationship would not be changed until I met the Lord Jesus. I was touched by His love which showed through the cross: He loved and forgave those who hated Him, and He even crucified for those who betrayed Him and beat Him.

Once I fought with my older sister for the TV show, and then we had not talked to one another for a day. After that, I remembered from the bible that the disciple Peter asked Jesus, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.” (Matthew 18: 21-22) The love of the Lord and the lesson from the bible motivated me to apologize to my older sister. Therefore, I summoned courage to write a letter to my older sister to express my willingness to repair the relationship with her at that day. Since then, I am no longer jealous, and we rarely quarrel. Even if we quarrel sometimes, I will bravely apologize to her. Then we will reconcile very soon. Now, I often give thanks for having my older sister, and I cherish her. Thanks to the Lord for all the help.

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